Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Working, working, working....

Okay, I didn't post last night, but I DID get a pretty layout! LOL! I love it! It is SO pretty!

Not quite what I had in mind to begin with, but pretty anyway. Now I have to figure out the rest of this blogger thing, lol! I can change my layout if I want, but I haven't figured anything else out, except how to make a regular post.

So, I'm at work....I love my job, I really do....but I am the kind of person who has to feel valued at my job, and I am starting to lose that feeling here. That sucks, because that makes going to work miserable.

Anyway, I will post more later, I just wanted to post and let everyone know that Kelly helped me figure out the layouts, lol! :-)

Oh....here are my results to the quiz Kelly posted!

I am a Doris!


Your result for Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz...

You Are a Doris!

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You are a Doris -- "I must help others."


Dorises are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.




How to Get Along with Me

  • * Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.

  • * Share fun times with me.

  • * Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.

  • * Let me know that I am important and special to you.

  • * Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.




In Intimate Relationships

  • * Reassure me that I am interesting to you.

  • * Reassure me often that you love me.

  • * Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.




What I Like About Being a Doris

  • * being able to relate easily to people and to make friends

  • * knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better

  • * being generous, caring, and warm

  • * being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings

  • * being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor




What's Hard About Being a Doris

  • * not being able to say no

  • * having low self-esteem

  • * feeling drained from overdoing for others

  • * not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish

  • * criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should

  • * being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them

  • * working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings




Dorises as Children Often

  • * are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism

  • * try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding

  • * are outwardly compliant

  • * are popular or try to be popular with other children

  • * act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention

  • * are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Dorises), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Dorises)




Dorises as Parents

  • * are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)

  • * are often playful with their children

  • * wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"

  • * can become fiercely protective




Take Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz
at HelloQuizzy

2 comments:

Unknown said...

I was a Doris too! ~~Kath~~

Terri said...

My bad....I thought this layout was the one you were getting rid of..thats why I asked for the code....so don't worry about it girlie...I wouldnt want to use the same one as you...unless you wasnt using it anymore...

Kelly helped me with my layout too...lol

Looks pretty up in here...

I know what ya mean about not feeling valued at work sometimes...and it is miserable...

My problem isn't the job it's some of the coworkers...ugh...lol

Hugs
Terri

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